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Julia Summers Counsellor Profile Picture

Specialist in unhealthy relationship behaviours, manipulation and abuse.

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​Thank you for visiting my site. Most people who come to work with me are trying to make sense of relationship experiences that have left them feeling confused, hurt, or questioning themselves. Sometimes something does not feel right, but it is hard to explain why.  â€‹A large part of my work focuses on unhealthy relationship behaviours, including emotional abuse, manipulation patterns, and controlling dynamics.  I also have a specialist interest in the influence of Red Pill and manosphere ideology on relationships and the impact this can have on individuals.

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Therapy with me is calm, supportive, and non-judgemental. It is a safe space where we can begin to make sense of things at your own pace.

Author of Game Over: Uncovering the Secrets of Unhealthy Relationship Behaviours and Manipulation (Published 10th July 26)

​Specialist Areas:

  • Toxic and unhealthy relationship behaviours

  • Emotional abuse and coercive control

  • Manipulation dynamics

  • Relationship power imbalance

  • Psychological impact of Red Pill and manosphere ideology

​Trauma & Rewind Therapy

Trauma and difficult life experiences are often closely connected with relationship patterns and emotional wellbeing. I have been a trauma counsellor for many years and I know how much it can impact your life, whether it happened weeks or decades ago, whether it was a single event or a series of experiences. It can affect how you think and feel, making you anxious, angry, sad, confused, dissociated and withdrawn. It can impact your relationships, family dynamics, how you cope with life and your ability to trust others.

One of the ways I help clients process trauma is through Rewind Trauma Therapy, which has incredible success rates. I know how powerful this approach is because I’ve experienced it myself. After struggling with complex PTSD, I was treated by Dr David Muss, the founder of Rewind Trauma Therapy. It was truly life-changing—it also cured my lifelong needle phobia!

Rewind Therapy can help if you experience:

  • PTSD, flashbacks, nightmares

  • Anxiety, panic attacks, and intrusive thoughts

  • Emotional triggers and overwhelming reactions

  • Phobias, OCD, and extreme anxiety

  • Trauma from accidents, abuse, or witnessing distressing events

You can book stand alone Rewind sessions, or we can incorporate it into our counselling work together. If you're interested in the research, you can read the latest study on Rewind for PTSD here.  I am also an Accredited Trainer with the IARTT - International Association for Rewind Trauma Therapy.

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How I Work

Therapy isn't just for when you're in crisis or at rock bottom. It can be helpful long before things get overwhelming—giving you clarity, confidence and tools to manage life's challenges before they snowball.  As an integrative therapist I use a range of counselling and psychotherapy approaches, tailoring each session to your needs and drawing on different approaches depending on what feels most helpful for you.. My experience includes private practice, schools, community projects and well-respected NHS-funded charities. I also supervise and support other counsellors, trainees, and organisations.

If you're struggling to find hope, I can hold that for you. I’ve seen what’s possible—not just through my own therapy journey, but through the many transformations of my clients. We start wherever you are and work at a pace that feels right for you.

I offer flexible scheduling, including daytime, evening, and weekend appointments. Sessions can be weekly, fortnightly, or one-off as needed. Some clients work with me short-term, while others choose long-term support over months or years.

If anything I’ve said resonates with you and you feel I might be the right person to support you or if you have any questions, please get in touch. I’d love to hear from you.

Julia Summers
Dip Ther Couns | BSc (Hons) Psych | MBACP | MNCS (Accred) | Trainer & Supervisor

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  • Face to Face counselling and psychotherapy in Wilmslow Cheshire and for clients in surrounding areas such as Wilmslow, Alderley Edge, Hale, Altrincham, Cheadle, Macclesfield, Sale, Knutsford, Stockport, Manchester etc.

  • Nationwide Online Counselling & Telephone Counselling sessions

  • I offer flexible day, evening & weekend sessions & intensive therapy courses

  • Counselling sessions cost £90.  Lower rates are available if needed please ask about concessionary rates.

  • Cancellation Policy - 48 hours notice is required to cancel a session or full payment is due.

  • British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and The National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) member

  • I am  a professionally qualified, registered and insured counsellor, supervisor and trainer.

  • I have a clear DBS (Disclosure & Barring Service)

BACP logo in blue, indicating accredited membership with membership number.
NCPS logo: green target with three circles (green, white, black) and a purple accreditation figure with 'Accredited' in white

Haven Therapy, 14 Handforth Road, Wilmslow, SK9 2LU

England, UK

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