An experienced counsellor on the behaviours and patterns that harm.

01 — ABOUT

Julia Summers is a counsellor, clinical supervisor and trainer specialising in unhealthy relationship behaviours, coercive control, manipulation, and abuse. Her work involves clinical practice and training other counsellors and therapists. She has published professional training on Red Pill and manosphere ideology and delivers Rewind Trauma Therapy Training. Her debut book, Game Over: Uncovering the Secrets of Unhealthy Relationship Behaviours and Manipulation is out on 10th July 2026 with early access through the waitlist.www.haventherapy.co.uk/gameoverbook

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02 — THE BOOK

Game Over

Exploring over 60 tactics and techniques of unhealthy relationship behaviours and manipulation.

Clear, practical and empowering, Game Over helps you to identify behaviours, recognise patterns, understand the impact and reclaim your power.

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03 — WORK WITH JULIA

Counselling

Integrative therapy for people impacted by manipulation, abuse, coercive control, unhealthy relationships, manosphere content trauma, PTSD and the aftermath of harm. Evidence-backed trauma therapy with strong outcomes for relational and single-event trauma. Calm, non-judgemental, paced to you.

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Training & Courses

Specialist training for counsellors, therapists and professionals on coercive control, manipulation, manosphere and Red Pill ideology, and trauma. Practical, clinically grounded, and evidence-informed. Client courses coming soon.

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Media & Speaking

Media commentary, keynote talks, panels and podcast appearances on coercive control, manipulation, and the psychological impact of Red Pill and manosphere ideology. Featured in The Telegraph, Woman Magazine and across NCPS and BACP publications.

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"Julia really understands what it's like to be in an abusive relationship. She helped me understand what was happening to me. Our sessions have been life-changing."

— S.T.